you know how people say you should judge your date* / loved ones [including friends, etc.] by how well they treat service staff?
i think you should also judge people by how well they treat those whom society deems "mentally ill" or neuro-atypical or Disabled.
especially people such as homeless, unable to speak, or unconscious "mentally ill" / neuro-atypical / Disabled people.
you know, like, the most vulnerable people in the entire world.
i've been all of them [including what would be considered subminimum(in usameriKKKa) wage service staff (in china), lol] & god, some of the most horrifically horrible meanest saneist ableist elitist gatekeeping clout-chasing capitalist social-capitalist cruellest people i've met, call themselves "anti-capitalist abolitionists" lmao
*this word choice is only playing off of the meme.
i actively fight against the normalization of romantic relationships as default / "most important".
for one thing,
it directly serves (& is a cultural value propagated by)
white supremacist capitalism,
to elevate romantic relationships / marriage / nuclear and/or legal family,
/ all other kinds of relationships.